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Life of Two Beat Friends: College CHPT 49

Life of Two Best Friends: College CHPT 48

CHAPTER 49

I needed that cooldown. Finally my limbs were feeing like jello. Jello was better than fire. I searched for Henry. He must have only needed a short cooldown. I pulled myself up and out of the pool. ‘Ouch! That hurt.’ My shoulders did not like hoisting my body up. I walked back over to lane three and grabbed my towel. I was so glad that I was done with races. I didn’t know if I could do it again, today. They were on the last heat of 200 Freestyles done by the B and C strings.

Walking up to Coach I saw Henry, Jeremy, and Chad standing there talking to Coach. I don’t know how I knew, but I was not going to like this. “Hey Coach. Sorry about diving in too soon. You could blame it on habit. My body hears the long whistle and I get up on the blocks. What’s going on?” I already knew the answer. We were going to be doing another race.

“Don’t worry about the 500 race right now, George,” Coach waved me to stand next to Henry, “now that George is here, shall we begin?”

Hopefully it’s just another race; and not a workout. ‘I will protest! No I wouldn’t.’ “What are we beginning?”

“I want you four to do a relay. I think could be a great line up. And since you and Henry are so exhausted I’m curious to know what you can do with no energy. Now, go get behind the blocks. Jeremy is first, then Henry, then Chad, and lastly George. George chase yourself! Now go!”

We were walking away, “is Coach crazy? I can barely feel my body. How am I supposed to sprint now?” Henry said as he began to actively stretch.

I tried to swing my arms too, but I could only seem to do small pathetic circles. “You know Coach. He wants to see what we can do when we have nothing left. Strangely enough it is sometimes your best race. Come on Henry! We will be done after this. Let’s show Coach what we can do!” I was trying to pump Henry up, but also myself. I was hurting too. But Coach was expecting the impossible again. If we didn’t deliver we would be expected to try again. “Let’s get this done!” I started to jump. Waking up my body; ignoring the burning.

“Yeah. Let’s get this done in one shot. We can do this,” Jeremy jumped as well trying to get pumped.

“Yeah. I don’t want to have to do this over and over again,” Chad said walking to the blocks.

“Tweet tweet tweet!”

“Let’s do this,” Jeremy climbed the block.

Get it done Jeremy!’ The three of us crouched around the block.

“Take your mark…BEEP!”

Jeremy left!

“Go Jeremy!” I was yelling. I never yell. I usually conserve my energy. But not this time. My teammates needed encouragement. They needed more; so I was giving them more. Jeremy touched the wall and Henry took off. I helped pull Jeremy up and out of the pool. Henry was flying. At least it seemed like he was flying. The yelling at the other end of the pool was so loud it made no sense for me to continue to yell. You couldn’t hear anything but them.

Come on Henry!’ Screw it. I was going to yell for them. They deserved it. “Go Henry! Go!” He touched and Chad was gone. I too pulled Henry out of the pool. He just crumpled to the deck once he was clear. I was next. I needed to move. I jumped. I moved. I was ready. Burning or not, I was going to finish this. ‘Chase George. Chase your well rested self. Chase the one that thinks they will win. Chase!’

I climbed the blocks. Chad was coming. He was almost here. Soon it was me. I could see myself in pool. Leisurely swimming away. Not trying at all. ‘Catch him, George!’ Timothy touched the wall and I dove in.

Play With My Babies

What do you wish you could do more every day?

Because we are trying to sell our house, all my time is spent focused on the house. Is it clean? Does it smell nice? Do the dishes. Do the laundry. Mop the floors.

But pile on top of that, make breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day from scratch. Take care of a two month year old. (Diapers, feeding, smiles). School is on pause; but my daughter is doing an awesome job reading her books from Nana.

But within all of this, I rarely have time to just play with my kiddos. Or even just watch them play.

But a big part of anyone’s childhood is to be read a bedtime story. Even when my mom was crazy busy, she would read us Indian in the Cupboard series. (Great books). But she made time. But for me, I don’t know where my time goes every day. By the time bedtime rolls in I’m tired and my body hurts, that I just was to be in bed.

It happens occasionally when my husband is home at night, and he can hold the little one. But with his schedule , and him being exhausted all the time, that’s slim.

So mom’s out there. Read books with your kids. Play imaginary games too. They are only little once. But also, if you have more kids, you might not have lots of free time in the future.

But also it will give your kids memories they keep forever. Because I have no idea how little I was when my mom read to me, but I can still remember.

Weekend is almost here. Have fun!!🤩

Tattoo…

What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?

When I was younger, my drawing style was a lot like tattoo art. I liked the dark lines outlining the design.

But I never wanted a tattoo. I’m one of those people, afraid of needles.

Even when my goal was the Olympics, I wasn’t going to get the ring tattoo. I would have just gotten fake tattoos made and stuck it on everyday. I know that sounds ridiculous, but I would have done it. One of a kind!

But if I had to choose a tattoo I would probably get a drawing of water, or a peach orange rose, a picture of my dog, an elephant family, my kids in some way, etc.

This was another reason. That I would change my mind too much. That I would get one, not like it, and want something else.

I’m not against tattoos. You can have them if you want to. Just don’t go overboard. And I’m in favor, especially, for the people who get tattoos to cover up scars. Cover up bad memories with something meaningful or beautiful.

If anything, if I’m really curious, then I will use face paint. No needles and washable.

This I think would be pretty as a tattoo. I’ve been painting this painting layout for the last 20 years. It’s a simple as layout. This one is from 10-30-2020.

I think that would also be my problem. Is and painting that I loved I would want a small square of it to be a tattoo. I would have a stain glass window effect.

That’s actually a cool idea of a painting…I might have to try that in the future.

Have a great Thursday!

Why Always One?

What is one word that describes you?

Why is it always choose one. I don’t know if anyone can define themselves with one word.

I’ll change the question. Of each kind use one word. This is going to be hard, but I think it will be fun!

Noun: Mom

Adjective: Creative

Verb: Busy

Adverb: Lovingly

Direct Object: Tired (Mom is Tired)

Preposition: With (They are with me. I am with them.)

Conjunction: So (So, what do you want for dinner?)

Interjection: Aww! 🥰

Determiner: Her

.-.-.-.

Surprisingly, that was a lot of fun!

Enjoy your Wednesday!! 💕

Car!

You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike?

Well technically a 3500 large cab truck. The husband will be driving so that I can totally doze off in the front seat. Haha!

We actually were just talking about road tripping. But what I’m excited about it we are going to be getting a camper trailer. So eventually when we go on trips we will tow that around as well.

Which means no more hotels. No more random bathrooms. No more waiting for food.

The hotel one is a big thing. Because my husband and I are slight meat freaks. In the sense of, the hotel room is still not clean; not matter how much they do. So having a toddler run around touching everything. Licking things occasionally. Rubbing their face all over the floor. This makes my brain explode. But being in a camper trailer will mean the toddler is doing all of this in our own space. If it’s not super clean; I at least know the dirty.

Also, it will be our own bathroom. So if it has a weird smell of pee, I know it was one of the four of us. Unlike when you go to rest stops, fast food, or an unfortunate porta potty. Again think little kids. And bathrooms are full of germs. Blah!! So gross. Camper toilet sounds awesome.

Food. Food is hard now since I make everything from scratch. So the only place we can eat is cafe Rio. Only bowls. Cafe Rio is not popular everywhere. Also for some reason food seems to take forever. Especially when the whole car is hangry. So when we are hungry, we just pull over and I can whip up a lunch! More work for me, but less stress.

But yea definitely a truck. Airplanes are short, but the process before the flight is long and unbearable.

Train would be fun. But not realistic when the husband only has so much time off.

Bus…no. Nope. Can you imagine two wired kids, one infant, and two frustrated parents?? “And a partridge in a pear tree.”

Bike. Haha! Bike. Me biking. That’s funny. Maybe motorcycle, 8 years ago, with no kids. Again hubby in charge. But bicycle…I can do a trail and bike for a bit. Especially if I have a motor, but more than that, no thanks.

This was fun. 🤩

This is A Difficult One.

Who is the most confident person you know?

This one is hard. Because I don’t know if there is truly a true confident person. Everyone, even the most confident person, has doubts. If you don’t you aren’t human.

Like I’m not a very confident person. But put me in a pool or behind a canvas and I change completely. You wouldn’t even recognize me.

My husband is pretty confident in several aspects of his life. But he is constantly doubting on various decisions. He’s just worried if he is making the right decision. But that’s life. You live, and learn.

My daughter, I would say is the most confident person I know. But she’s only six. It’s amazing to see how a six year old’s mind works. They are fearless! I think she lives with the motto, “ask for forgiveness later.” But I know in her teenage years she will have doubts; we all do.

My son is confident too. But again he is almost three. The mind of a two year old is mind-blowing. He believes his way is the only way. He’s also super independent. I sometimes really want to help him, but nope. Not allowed in his book. Even if he fails and fails, he continually tries until he gets it. He doesn’t ask for help. So to me that is confidence as well. Confidence that you can do it yourself eventually.

My siblings and mama too. They are confident in different aspects of their lives, but they are still unsure of things.

Which to me it is normal. Doubts or questions are a normal part of growing up.

So if you see that super confident person in your life; and it seems like have it all together, they are probably struggling with something too. And sometimes the super confident person needs help, but their persona is against asking for help. So try and be that person for them. Everyone needs someone.

Enjoy your Sunday!

Digital Art “Us”
By: emily2jane
03-16-25

I like drawing quick easy drawings. All I need is my phone and my pointer finger.

Haha! Kind of…

Are you superstitious?

I first saw this prompt and said, nope and skipped over it. But then I read some of the responses and discovered that I do indeed do some of the various things. But I would say it’s more lighthearted or comical; its just always done throughout my life, so it has just stayed.

I do the “knock on wood”. Haha! I never thought of this as superstition. Because I think everyone does this. You say something and in panic you knock on wood. That’s normal. And when I was younger my older brother would knock on my head instead….I figured out years later that he was calling my head wood. I was not a happy one…

My husband says that if he helps with the dishes then the weather will drastically change. Like if it’s a sunny day, it will suddenly snow! Or if it was calm, the wind would erupt and go crazy. Haha! But to his credit, when he does help occasionally it does snow, or pours, or the winds get up to 70mph.

True for me too. If I fold the socks… I have a basket for clean laundry, and in the bottom it naturally collects all the socks. And on a rare day I decide to fold them. I always say the weather is going to change since I’m messing with the socks. And it does sometimes, but less often than my husband.

I trust my gut. I don’t know if this superstitious, but everyone knows: when your gut squirms you listen.

These were the ones that stuck out to me the most.

Knocking on wood, doing dishes, gut, and socks. Those pesky socks…

We’ll have a fun weekend. If you want the weather to change, fold your socks or have your husband load the dishwasher, it might work.

Spider-Man!!

Just an art project with my daughter kind of post.

The bedroom my daughter and son share is obviously more a girl room. (It was my daughter’s room first) But so I decided to paint my son a Spider-Man painting. He loves Spider-Man.

The inspiration picture:

Painted this on my mom’s window almost 8 years ago. 😳

May daughter’s reference:

I drew out both pictures with pencil on parchment paper.

So far:

Not bad for it being almost 6 months since I last painted or drew anything.
She is doing great. I’ll probably draw the spider web lines after it dries with sharpie.

We have to finish before my son gets home. Or he will want to “help” me, and obviously it wouldn’t be helpful.

Finished Painting: Total 3hrs

I guess I still have to draw the black lines…😅
She did great! 😊 but again I have to draw the black lines.

That was the fastest I ever painted. I did the remainder from before in about 50min. Which is good because 40min into the 50, my son showed up. Let’s just say, he needs a nap.

Finished:

That was the fasted painting I ever did. But the parchment paper worked!! Easy and affordable painting paper.
She did a good job!!

Her brother loved it! 🥰 so it was worth the work!!

Hmmm…I Know!

What activities do you lose yourself in?

Reading a book. I know before I said I rarely get to read, but when I do, I can’t put the book down. Even being a mama of three I have occasionally stayed up until 3am reading a book. That’s why it’s rare. Because I always feel terrible the next few days as I’m trying to recoup after my bad decision.

Painting. Drawing. I can just paint for hours. Once life is less crazy, I hope to just disappear to a shed and paint, paint, paint. Like I had a college painting class that was 6hrs long. Several of my classmates would complain that it was too long; whereas, I wanted more time in a day to paint. like yesterday I painted a Spider-Man painting for my son, and it took 3hrs to complete. But it only seemed like 2hrs.

Swimming. I love swimming. Even to this day. Yes, I’m out of shape, but I love swimming laps. I tend to forget about everything, as I enter into my bubble of the pool and just swim. Once I can swim more, I hope I could spend about 1hr a day swimming. It would be the best and safest way for me to get back in shape. Hopefully soon!

Dishes. Strangely enough I can lose myself in doing the dishes. I don’t like doing dishes, but if you have the right tunes, alone time, and the soapy water.

Folding laundry. Since I’m constantly doing chores I’ve tried to make them more enjoyable. I lay my new baby on the bed, I have music playing, and I get to folding. Again. I really dislike folding laundry, but if you have to do something you might as well make it fun.

Sitting in bed. When I finally get to sit in bed and relax, I tend to stay up too late. Like 11pm-Midnight. Just because it’s my first chance that day at complete silent alone time. I should be sleeping, because I’m exhausted. But instead I want to watch a movie, or write a blog post, or just be.

So I don’t know three of the six things I listed count as “activities” but that’s what my life consists of. When I’m not cleaning, cooking from scratch, changing diapers, homeschooling, or giving hugs.

Enjoy your Friday!! I had to just look to see what day it was. Haha! I wonder if that will ever change… but FRIDAY!!

Life of Two Best Friends: College CHPT 48

Life of Two Best Friends:College CHPT 47

CHAPTER 48

I was ready, but oh great, “I need a lap counter.”

“Already got that covered, George!”

The girl from before. I seriously need to learn her name again. “Thanks! Lane 3.”

“Yep!” She yelled as she headed towards the other side of the pool.

As I stretched, I saw her stand behind lane 3. But stayed out of the way of the current lap counter. I definitely need to learn her name to thank her properly. I focused back to active stretching. I was actually excited for this race. I normally don’t swim this event. Because I suck at it, but also the 50 Freestyle is just before this, and normally I put everything into that race. So turning around to do distance would be like asking to fall unconscious again.

‘Focus George. You are getting distracted. Focus. Henry. Chase down Henry. Twenty laps.’ I had never seen Henry swim this race. But I knew he loved distance; he never seemed tired after those kinds of sets. As Coach said, he will hold a great pace. Which means this is a sprint to him. So to catch him I’m going to have to find a new gear in my wheelhouse of speed. But I can beat him on his turns. My streamlines have gotten stronger with all my breath control sets. ‘You can do this George. You have to do this. Coach is watching. Get this done!’

“Heat 4. Tweet tweet tweet!”

‘That’s me.’ I step up to the blocks.

“Take your mark.”

‘Chase him down!’

“Beep!”

I was off!

Turn. ‘Go!’ I felt like I was flying! Nothing was going to stop me. Turn! ‘Go!’ I had forgotten to tell my lap counter the signals, but I didn’t need them. In the corner of my eye I could see Henry’s steady bubbles from his kicking. I needed to catch him. I had to catch him. Coach was expecting me to do so. I had to! Turn! I knew my body was probably dying, but I was ignoring everything. Pain was not going to be my stumbling block today. ‘Catch him, George!’ Turn. Only six laps left. I needed to find that new gear, but I seemed stuck. I couldn’t catch Henry. He was within reach but still out of my reach. ‘Come on George! Get there!’ Turn. Henry was beginning to pull away. ‘No…’

Henry continued to pull away. This is what Coach meant. That Henry would stay strong even at the end. His pace would not falter. That he was trained for this. Only four laps to go. ‘Do it George. Straighten them. If you die, then die trying something new!’ I straightened my arms. I used my technique I use for sprints. Crazily at the end of this grueling 500, but I was going to give it all I got!

Turn. Two laps left. ‘Get it done, George!’ Henry’s kick came back into view. ‘I can do this! Go, George!’ Turn. ‘Streamline! Keep it strong! Up! Pull! Pull! Keep that kick going. Don’t stop the kick!’ I could see Henry’s arms. I’m getting closer. ‘Catch him!’ Four, three, two, …one. ‘Finished!’ Once my hand hit the wall my body exploded with pain. Every inch of my skin was on fire. I was exhausted, but I didn’t feel like I would pass out. There’s no way I conserved energy, but I wasn’t completely dead. So I must have, somehow. I looked to Henry. He too was breathing hard. But he looked more exhausted than I was.

He looked at me and swam over to shake my hand. “Nice race. You made me swim faster than I ever had! Knowing you were chasing me down gave me an edge. I’m guessing that’s why Coach did this. Not to just help you, but to get me out of my groove. Did Coach tell you to ignore the whole ‘I’ll be a 50 ahead of you’, and that’s why you dove in at the beginning and didn’t wait?”

“What? What do you mean?”

We pulled ourselves up out of the pool and walked over to the cooldown pool.

“You were supposed to wait until after my first 50 to start, but you dove in at the same time. So I assumed Coach wanted me to kickstart my speed. That I was still expected to beat you. I panicked, but then I just did my normal plan, but just starting out at seventy percent and building. That last one hundred was brutal. I didn’t know if I could stay ahead of you. You seemed to be flying at the end. What did you do different?”

“You did start to pull away. I wasn’t able to find a different speed, so instead I changed up my technique. I started my straight arm pull and I’m feeling it now,” as I rubbed my shoulder I could feel it burning. “I didn’t realize I dove in too early. I guess it’s just habit. Hopefully Coach is not too angry at me for not following his plan.”

“Don’t worry about it. If he gets mad I’ll tell him it was great for me. I don’t think I would have swam that well unless you had been there the whole time. Again thanks George.” Henry jumped into the cooldown pool.

I stood there a moment longer. Glad I was a help to him. But I completely forgot to look at places. Did I win or not? Was Coach going to be doubly disappointed? I pulled my goggles back on. Time for a long one thousand cooldown. “I’ll find out the results later. Let’s get this done.” I jumped into the pool. My arms were burning. I felt almost numb since my limbs hurt so much. But I pushed through the pain, or later would be unbearable.